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Procrastination, Perfectionism, and the Myth of Consistency

September 26, 20251 min read

We’ve been sold a lie: that consistency means never missing a day, never dropping the ball, never breaking the chain.

But perfection masquerading as consistency is a trap. Miss one day, and suddenly your brain whispers: See, you’ll never stick with it. That’s when procrastination slips in—and before you know it, you’ve abandoned the thing entirely.


The Myth of Consistency

True consistency doesn’t mean always. It means again.

  • Missed a workout? You can still go tomorrow.

  • Fell off your routine? You can start fresh this afternoon.

  • Forgot your practice? You can pick it back up right now.

Consistency is built on return, not rigidity.


How Procrastination & Perfectionism Team Up

  • Perfectionism says: “If I can’t do it flawlessly, I won’t start.”

  • Procrastination says: “I’ll wait until I feel like it.”
    Together, they create a vicious cycle: delay, guilt, avoidance, repeat.


3 Tools to Reset Consistency

  1. The 2-Minute Rule: Commit to two minutes. Once you start, momentum usually follows.

  2. Shrink the scope: Instead of “I’ll meditate for 30 minutes,” try “I’ll take 3 breaths.”

  3. Reframe the restart: Every return is proof of resilience, not evidence of failure.


The Big Shift

Consistency isn’t about perfection. It’s about persistence. You don’t need an unbroken streak—you need a habit of returning.

If you’re wondering whether consistency (or clarity or confidence) is your biggest bottleneck, take the Momentum Quiz. In 3 minutes, you’ll know where to focus next.

ECO certified coach and Mental Fitness Trainer. Brenda believes you already have everything inside you to become all you are created to be. With her clients she helps tame the inner critic, reframe limiting beliefs so you reach your goals with joy and confidence.

Brenda Bauer

ECO certified coach and Mental Fitness Trainer. Brenda believes you already have everything inside you to become all you are created to be. With her clients she helps tame the inner critic, reframe limiting beliefs so you reach your goals with joy and confidence.

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